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Meditation not working for you? Let's try grounding

Updated: Mar 18, 2023

# Grounding vs Meditation: What's the Difference and How to Practice Them


Meditation is a popular and beneficial practice that can help you reduce stress, improve focus, and enhance well-being. However, meditation can also be challenging for some people, especially if they have high anxiety or trauma. This is because meditation often involves trying to clear the mind of thoughts and distractions, which can be difficult or even triggering for some. If you are someone who tries to meditate, and find themselves immediately preoccupied with anxious or stressful thoughts, meditation may not be the right thing for you - at least not right now.


That's why grounding can be a useful alternative or complement to meditation. Grounding is a technique that helps you stay present and connected to your body and the environment. Grounding does not require you to clear your mind, but rather to focus on physical sensations, logical fact driven thought processes, and memories and feelings that anchor you in the here and now.


Let’s explore the differences between grounding and meditation, how they can benefit you in different ways, and how to practice them effectively.


## What is grounding?


Grounding is a mindfulness technique that helps you cope with overwhelming emotions, anxiety, or stress by bringing your attention to your physical sensations and surroundings. Grounding can help you calm down, feel more centered, and regain control of your thoughts and actions.


Grounding can be practiced in different ways, such as:


- Focusing on your breathing and noticing how it feels in your chest, nose, or mouth.

- Touching something solid or textured, such as a rock, a piece of jewelry, or a soft blanket.

- Listening to sounds around you or playing soothing music.

- Smelling something pleasant or comforting, such as lavender oil, coffee beans, or fresh flowers.

- Tasting something sweet or sour, such as candy, lemon juice, or mint gum.

- Looking at something beautiful or interesting in your environment,

such as a painting, a plant, or a cloud.

- Listing factoid to yourself (types of cars, band names, cities, etc..), things that can maintain your interest.


Grounding can be done anywhere and anytime you feel overwhelmed, distracted, or disconnected from yourself or reality.


## What is meditation?


Meditation is a practice that involves focusing your attention on a single object, thought,

or sensation for a period of time. Meditation can help you relax, increase awareness,

and cultivate positive emotions. Meditation can also improve your mental and physical health by reducing stress, blood pressure, and inflammation.


Meditation can be practiced in different ways,

such as:


- Focusing on your breath and observing how it flows in and out of your body.

- Repeating a word or phrase (mantra) that has meaning or significance for you.

- Visualizing an image or scene that makes you feel calm or happy.

- Scanning your body and noticing any sensations or tensions in each part.

- Practicing loving-kindness and sending compassion and goodwill to yourself and others.


Meditation usually requires a quiet and comfortable place where you can sit still and undisturbed for at least 10 minutes.


## How are grounding and meditation different?


Grounding and meditation are both mindfulness techniques that can help you cope with stress, anxiety, and negative emotions. However, they have some key differences that make them suitable for different situations and preferences.


Some of the main differences are:


- Grounding focuses on external stimuli (such as sights,

sounds, smells), while meditation focuses on internal stimuli (such as breaths,

thoughts, feelings).

- Grounding helps you reconnect with reality when you feel detached from it (such as during dissociation), while meditation helps you detach from reality when you feel attached to it (such as during rumination).

- Grounding does not require any specific posture, time limit, or preparation; it can be done spontaneously whenever needed; while meditation usually requires some planning ahead; setting aside some time; finding a suitable place; adopting a comfortable posture; etc.

- Grounding does not involve any judgment; analysis; or interpretation of what you perceive; it simply asks you to notice what is happening without trying to change it; while meditation often involves some reflection; insight; or evaluation of what you experience; it may ask you to label; accept; or let go of what arises in your mind.


So how do you know if grounding is better for you than meditation? The answer depends on your personal preferences, goals and needs. Here are some questions to ask yourself:


- Do you become quickly overwhelmed and stressed when you start trying to clear your mind or focus on your breathing?

- Do you have limited access to quiet, distraction free places that are conducive to mediation?

- Do you need a more active and externally focused mindfulness skill you can use in any place/time?


Of course, these are not hard-and-fast rules. You can always experiment with both practices and see what works best for you. You can also combine them by doing grounding meditation , which might give you the best of both worlds.


The bottom line is that both grounding and meditation are beneficial practices that can help you improve your health and happiness. The key is to find what suits you best and make it a regular part of your life.

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